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01-17-2013 at 9:29 AM
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Drinking DH

My cycles are never the same  so I thought our trouble GP had to do with me. Then it occurred to me that my DH wets the bed when he's been drinking. Not just drunk, he'll sometime do it after just 6 beers. Granted, he is an extremely sound sleeper and he just might not wake up. 

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01-17-2013 at 9:32 AM
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Um.... Your posts amaze me. That is all. Idk that I would admit i had married a bed wetter on the Internet, but that is just me.

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01-17-2013 at 9:33 AM
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Wait, what? I don't see how wetting the bed is really related to TTC, but I would be worried that my adult husband has an incontinence problem.

Sounds like you and your DH both need to see a doctor...how is that tampon working out? Still MIA?
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01-17-2013 at 9:35 AM
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Sometimes after drinking too much I get the beer shiits.

Maybe that's why I'm not KU yet?

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01-17-2013 at 9:43 AM
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01-17-2013 at 9:44 AM
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CrayChristi:

My cycles are never the same  so I thought our trouble GP had to do with me. Then it occurred to me that my DH wets the bed when he's been drinking. Not just drunk, he'll sometime do it after just 6 beers. Granted, he is an extremely sound sleeper and he just might not wake up. 

Any thoughts?

TIA, xoxo. 

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01-17-2013 at 9:46 AM
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Hmm and this has to do with trying to conceive how? Is he ejaculating in his sleep as well?
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01-17-2013 at 9:47 AM
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MsCrispy:

Wait, what? I don't see how wetting the bed is really related to TTC, but I would be worried that my adult husband has an incontinence problem.

Sounds like you and your DH both need to see a doctor...how is that tampon working out? Still MIA?

I'm sure it's long been flushed down a toilet and is stuck in some tree roots in our clay pipes by now. No rancid smell coming from my hooha. Thanks for asking though! 
 
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01-17-2013 at 9:48 AM
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01-17-2013 at 9:48 AM
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MeatandBandP:
Hmm and this has to do with trying to conceive how? Is he ejaculating in his sleep as well?
Just curious if his pee pipes are messed up his testie pipes might be too
 
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01-17-2013 at 9:54 AM
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CrayChristi:
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Hmm and this has to do with trying to conceive how? Is he ejaculating in his sleep as well?
Just curious if his pee pipes are messed up his testie pipes might be too

It depends what he's drinking.

What's his alochol of choice? We need to know this to better help you.

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01-17-2013 at 9:55 AM
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I thought this post was going to be about swallowing.
 
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01-17-2013 at 9:56 AM
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I'm trying to figure out how "just 6 beers" is not considered a big deal...My thoughts, OP, is that your husband has a drinking problem, in addition to an incontinence problem, and he should probably get that squared away before you try to have a baby with him. 

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01-17-2013 at 9:58 AM
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01-17-2013 at 10:00 AM
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DH sometimes likes to pee on me during sex, but obviously before he ejaculates. I now wonder if this is somehow affecting the quality of sperm since he is doing both in a short amount of time. Thanks OP...off to search google.
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01-17-2013 at 10:01 AM
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Shayliz:
I thought this post was going to be about swallowing.

haha 

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MandJS:
I'm trying to figure out how "just 6 beers" is not considered a big deal...My thoughts, OP, is that your husband has a drinking problem, in addition to an incontinence problem, and he should probably get that squared away before you try to have a baby with him.nbsp;


Eh, my husband doesn't drink often but can knock back a 6pack without a problem and have little to no effects. Now, if her husband is doing it often, then yeah there is a problem. But, I think this op just likes muddying up the boards.

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01-17-2013 at 10:03 AM
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Shayliz:
I thought this post was going to be about swallowing.
haha this made me chuckle!!
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01-17-2013 at 10:03 AM
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I think one of the criteria for being diagnosed with a drinking problem is "regularly pisses self while drinking."
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01-17-2013 at 10:08 AM
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you have got to be making this stuff up.

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01-17-2013 at 10:09 AM
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MandJS:

I'm trying to figure out how "just 6 beers" is not considered a big deal...My thoughts, OP, is that your husband has a drinking problem, in addition to an incontinence problem, and he should probably get that squared away before you try to have a baby with him. 

My DH had more than 6 beers bowling last week and I don't believe that means he has a problem. But if OP's H does this regularly-yeah it's a big deal.

OP-you are spending waaay to much time trying to self-diagnose with sh!t. If he wets the bed and its an adult he should have seen the doctor a long time ago. And not because "you aren't KU", because adults shouldn't be wetting the bed.
 
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DH sometimes likes to pee on me during sex, but obviously before he ejaculates. I now wonder if this is somehow affecting the quality of sperm since he is doing both in a short amount of time. Thanks OP...off to search google.

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Shayliz:
I thought this post was going to be about swallowing.

Ha!  I thought that too!

Wasn't there someone (a Regular poster) on the board not too long ago that said her DH would wet the bed every time he got drunk?  And then he'd make her clean it up?  Who was that?

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01-17-2013 at 10:18 AM
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Pinkypumpkin313:
ColeRose:
DH sometimes likes to pee on me during sex, but obviously before he ejaculates. I now wonder if this is somehow affecting the quality of sperm since he is doing both in a short amount of time. Thanks OP...off to search google.
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Maybe he should use one of your tampons before he goes to bed at night. That should plug the problem.



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CrayChristi:
MeatandBandP:
Hmm and this has to do with trying to conceive how? Is he ejaculating in his sleep as well?
Just curious if his pee pipes are messed up his testie pipes might be too

Um, I think it more has to with him sleeping so deeply when he drinks that he does not notice his cues to get up and use the restroom. 

And you can use big girl words.

 

 

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Maybe your husband shouldn't drink. That is not normal and he should probably see a doctor about that. I am assuming your husband isn't 90 years old, so a man in his 20's/30's/40's should not be wetting the bed.

 

Yah, I really have no good advice for this...but if you think it has something to do with the functions of his penis for ttc, then tell him to go to the doc.

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Cara1024:
you have got to be making this stuff up.


I think that's the point.

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