Thanks for all the replies so far and for welcoming me to the board.
I'm surprised to read that other people haven't been told to do his! I'm beginning to wonder if I need this vaccine right now at all because I don't really want to get it if I don't have to. I told my Dr. DH and I aren't actively TTC until after a ski trip in March for our anniversary, but we wanted to just keep it casual in the meantime. Maybe she just assumed we're fine with waiting anyway. I'll talk more DH about this and see what he thinks.
My doc has generally been a good doc (she's an OBGYN, but she's also my GP), but she has seemed to be almost obsessed with hormonal birth control. I talked with her about doing an IUD a few years ago and she asked what was wrong with my BCPs, and I just said I didn't know what long-term hormonal birth control could do for my health (plus I was getting tired of being dryer than a brush fire down there). So she tells me that long-term BCP use is better for my health because it prevents ovarian cysts and that I can just shove estrogen suppositories up my vag for the dryness.
She also didn't want me to go off them until we were actively TTC because I have a migraine condition, but my preventive (Zofran & X-strength Tylenol) is safe for pregnancy and I don't have a severe condition like some people I know.
She said I need to find a new OB when I GP anyway (not sure why?) so I may try to gently cut ties and find a new GP when I look for an OB. Thanks everyone, and I look forward to reading and commenting on your posts!