Im lurking because TB is slow
I had a touch of disappointment when I found it was a boy. I didnt even think I cared until I found out. Some pluses about a little boy.
If I had a little girl, I wouldnt have a little man calling me mom in his tiny little boy voice that melts my heart
I have this weird grandeur about raising a man. I mean, not everybody gets to do it and how wonderful to see your little boy grow into this big hunk who still loves you like when he was little.
You can do a little boy's hair way before a little girl's.
For me, it was mostly a "cute" thing. Little boy stuff isnt cutesy to me. My guy had reflux so bad he basically wore a receiving blanket his first few months, so girl or boy, my LO wouldnt have been wearing anything cute. I remember dressing him up to go out to dinner for the first time in his little matching socks and outfit. He was so sweet and cooing at everybody. He will melt your heart. Dont worry.