You guys are awesome. I am glad I posted this and then went to bed and got a good night's sleep and relooked at it. Ok, yes you are ALL right, and I know that!!
I come from a long line of worriers, and there is no shortness of things I obsess over, so TTC for us, is of course fun and wonderful, but my mind goes 1100 places with it, what with my medical past, and our first time TTC which took 11 months. which is still, I know, in the realm of normal as far as an RE is concerned. I'm sorry if I offended you guys, who have spent many more months and have a lot more experience with this process. I promise to chill out.
For all of the reasons mentioned, plus obsessing doesn't necessarily a baby make