I am so incredibly sorry and wish there was anything I could say to take at least some of the pain away. I am sure it is overwhelming. Do take some time for yourselves though to grieve. Take a day or two from work if you can. Lean on those closest to you when you are ready if anyone knows about your struggles. Or just curl up in bed, cry and scream. Whatever you do, don't feel guilty about it. This journey is unbelievably difficult and incredibly unfair. Sending huge huge hugs to you.
Exactly this. I am so very sorry, hun. ((huge hug))