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01-23-2013 at 12:25 PM
mocasio335...
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Calling all problem solvers!

Here is my dilemma:

DS is 8 weeks old tomorrow. He is EBF (it has been a struggle but we are trying to stick it out) and has mild acid reflux.  Mild in that it bothers him but it is not interfering with his growth. His doctor and I do not think he needs to be medicated at this time.

My problem is at night. He generally eats every two hours all day and night with a couple three hour stretches here and there.  So at night I swaddled him and put him in his pnp right next to my bed (was going to move him to his crib soon because it is inclined and he seems more comfortable in the firm mattress). Our night feeds go like this, I unswaddle him, change him, feed him, burp him, keep him upright for about 20 minutes, reswaddle and put him down. He is half asleep through all of this so his sleep is not affected by our routine, mine is. By the time he is back down I have maybe an hour of sleep until the next feed. After the second feed I am so sleepy that I fall asleep burping him and don't wake up until he fusses for his next feed.  This makes me incredibly uncomfortable because I do not like cosleeping. 

I should add that he is so sleepy that he snacks all night. Do you have any tips to make him eat more without full on waking him up? I think that may help him last longer.  I have to keep him upright for his reflux. Does anyone have any suggestions to help me get some sleep?

Sorry this came out to be so long, thanks for reading it and responding.  


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01-23-2013 at 12:34 PM
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Can your dh do the post-feed stuff? You could do the unswaddling and feeding, and then your dh could burp, change, and sit up with him. You need your sleep, too!  Aside from having dh help, I'm afraid I don't have any good ideas.

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01-23-2013 at 12:52 PM
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I have a similar situation as well.  Ex. he wakes up at 1 to eat and I get him back down at 2. He's up and ready to eat by 3:30-4:00.  He wakes up during the diaper changes for me though.  I play with him a little until he yawns and then swaddle hi back up. I have to change him b/c he gets diaper rash super easy.  Some nights after I feed him, I hand him off to DH to put to sleep. Weekends Dh helps more, week nights, if it is a 5 o'clock feeding, DH will finish it up b/c he has to wake up for work at 5:45.  Getting just a little help makes a huge difference for me.  I can't wait until E can sleep/go longer. I'm exhausted!
 
01-23-2013 at 3:50 PM
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The only suggestion I have is maybe offering a paci to check if he's really hungry or just needs to soothe. Other than that it sounds like normal newborn behavior.

 
01-23-2013 at 5:27 PM
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Thanks for the suggestions. On DHs days off he will help at night, that will help. 

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01-24-2013 at 10:23 PM
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One suggestion is to put the time in to make sure he feeds longer (I know it sucks, but down to the diaper if needed, etc.) and hopefully he will be fuller and sleep longer. Another idea-can you pump and have your DH take a shift?

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01-25-2013 at 9:06 AM
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In case anyone else is going through the same thing, I thought of something else to help. While I keep him upright on my chest I doze off and set my alarm to 20-30 minues later when I can reswaddle him and put him back down. Every little bit of sleep helps!

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