My niece had a gender neutral toilet at home. Not thinking to buy a gender neutral one for my own future use, I bought her a pink potty for at our house. When she went home, she refused to pee on the green potty. I'm sure my SIL loved me for that one. Oops!
Oh you are totally on her sh*t list for that! My #1 sh*t list for such dastardly deeds is DH's aunt who got DD princessy dressup shoes for a b-day gift and a fluffy tutu for a Christmas gift. Yeah, she wants to wear them all the time and doesn't really grasp how neither are appropriate for going outside, to church, to the park, etc. Let the tantrums ensue.
#2 is my BFF who got her her Punzel shirt.
#3 is my best mom-friend (who has only boys) who got her the Little People princesses.
Yeah I hate those b*tches!