We are having a girl and have chosen Jillian for her FN. We originally picked Ruth as the MN (after my husbands Grandmother who just passed away) But now we are think of changing it to May. (my husbands other grandmother, who is still with us) here is the issue: I am due in April and my husband's sister is due in May (with a girl) and she wants to use May as a middle name.... SO: Should I stick with Ruth? Or use May and both our babies will have the same middle name? I need advice!
I'd at least check in with her. Ultimately it's your decision, so even if you're not asking permission, you can give her a heads-up. I think Ruth or May sounds good!