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01-28-2013 at 10:03 AM
beernifer
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A little freaked Out

So I am 5 weeks with my second pregnancy. The first one I miscarried between 6 and 8 weeks (I think) when I was 25. I am 28 now and have been TTC for over a year and a half. The first time was a huge "oops" moment and I was little relived when I miscarried. We had just moved to a new city, I had no job, no health insurance and it just wasn't a great time. Fast forward, this is a great time, awesome job, great benefits, but I am super freaked that I will miscarry again. Every little twinge, back ache, etc has me running to the interwebs. I think I have completely lost my mind. I have my first appointment tomorrow am and just a little concerned about nothing. I swear, I am not this neuritic but I am just really freaked out.

Just needed to voice my fears, I think. Gotta stay positive and all that jazz.      


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01-28-2013 at 10:14 AM
melissab01...
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You're going to drive yourself crazy girl!  Really try to find something to keep your mind busy: reading, cooking, shopping, movies....anything to keep the worries at bay.  It's all out of your hands anyway so don't give yourself gray hairs lol!

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01-28-2013 at 10:16 AM
beernifer
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LoL. Tell me about it. I already found my first grey hair in my eyebrow! :-)

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01-28-2013 at 10:22 AM
leahaustin
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I understand being scared especially if you have gone through a miscarriage before. Just try to stay of the web.

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01-28-2013 at 11:16 AM
AFwifelife
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The only advice I can give you is to stay off Google!!!

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01-28-2013 at 12:12 PM
kirbabe
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Ahh, see I've never miscarried, so I don't know what it feels like, but I embrace every ache and pain, because I feel like unless it's an intense cramping accompanied with bleeding, then it's probably all good signs that my body is doing what it's supposed to to prepare for that growing baby.

You gotta relax, lady!  Take 'er easy!  :)  And stay off the computer. . .except for The Bump, of course!


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01-28-2013 at 5:05 PM
msm7268
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hi i know what you are feeling i lost two and i am so scared of losing another but today i got see my little peanut and a heart beat at 177 anyways just take 1 day at time and 1 week at time i was told that once you see the heart beat i think you may feel much more relax
 
01-29-2013 at 6:42 AM
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It took us 2 years of TTC and 2 IUIs to get pregnant with our first and I was the same way. Freaked out about everything. It's hard but you just have to try and relax. Think of it this way - a calmer happier relaxed you is much better for the baby. I took up meditating to relax at the time. :)

 

Goo luck with everything :)


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