Honey, using your first + maiden name was not a smart move in creating a screen name. Please make a new one. You're terribly easy to find.
I know! I looked up how to change it but all I saw were pissed off bumpers who had used their maiden name in theknot. Thebump says "Please Note: Once your username is created, it can't be changed." Probably good advice just to create a new profile, huh.