I have friends in all categories - honestly, I think some of the people who say it happened 'the first time' are lying. I know of at least one friend who said it happened the first time they tried, when really it took them 5 months. And I have a sister of a friend who swore it was a happy surprise, but my friend suspects her sister wasn't at all surprised - just her husband.
Don't give up hope, especially after 2 months!!!! I'm just starting my 6th cycle of trying, and we've been off birth control since just about a year now, though we were trying to avoid for awhile. I'm a little worried since we didn't try too hard to avoid, but I know so much more now - this month will be the first one we're using OPKs, so if after 4-5 months with OPKs I still haven't gotten anything, I'll probably ask for a referral to an RE as that would be 10 months of active trying and another 7 months of not trying, not preventing.