I'm so sorry you are dealing with all of this. I really hope they are able to come up with some solution for you. It must be frustrating to not have any answers about WHY this keeps happening.
Take some time to think about all your options. You don't have to decide right away.
I haven't been on the board very long but I know you are one of the most helpful and supportive women on here and you will be missed, but if you need a break from TB I know everyone will understand that.