how is your sex life since you got pregnant? Ours was terrible in my first tri. because i was so sick. second tri got better, even great during a few weeks. but now I'm almost 30 weeks and i don't feel sexy, my belly is in the way, i'm tired and i am really just not in the mood. I thought i would surprise my hubby when he got home from work on V-Day, but i fell asleep :(
does anyone else feel this way?
or do you have any ideas on a way to spice up things in the bedroom?
Our sex life hasn't been changed at all. I guess I am one of the lucky ones that never experienced morning sickness, and while I definitely don't feel sexy this late in the game with all of the weight I've gained (almost 40lbs now), DH constantly makes me feel beautiful.
We have excellent communication, which really helps. As far as being this late (I am just over 35 weeks and feel like I am the queen of sea cows) we find it is most comfortable to do things doggy style with a blanket and pillow under my bump for the best support and comfort.
Also to keep my sex drive up (sometimes it gets really low) we have sex just to keep things going, even when I am really not in the mood. While it sucks at the time (and it does), it actually makes him feel better and I find it makes the next time easier and I "want it" more.
I hope everything works out for the two of you, and just remember that communication is key. If you just cannot have sex try foreplay. This way you'll both feel satisfied and loved, and not ignored.